
The Khasi, Jaintia, Bhoi, War collectively known as
the Hynniewtrep people predominantly
inhabit the districts of East Meghalaya, also known
to be one of the earliest ethnic group of settlers in
the Indian sub-continent, belonging to the Proto Austroloid
Monkhmer race.
The Garo Hills is predominantly inhabited by the Garos,
belonging to the Bodo family of the Tibeto-Burman race,
said to have migrated from Tibet. The Garos prefer to
call themselves as Achiks and the land
they inhabit as the Achik-land.
The Khasi-Pnars
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The Khasis inhabit the eastern
part of Meghalaya, in the Khasi and Jaintia Hills.
Khasis residing in Jaintia hills are now better
known as Jaintias. They are also called Pnars.
The Khasis occupying the northern lowlands and
foothills are generally called Bhois. Those who
live in the southern tracts are termed Wars.Again
among the Wars, those living in the Khasi Hills
are called War-Khasis and those in the Jaintia
Hills, War-Pnars or War-Jaintias. In the Jaintia
Hills we have Khyrwangs, Labangs, Nangphylluts,
Nangtungs in the north-eastern part and in the
east. In the Khasi Hills the Lyngngams live in
the north-western part. But all of them claim
to have descended from the 'Ki Hynniew Trep' and
are now known by the generic name of Khasi-Pnars
or simply Khasis. They have the same traditions,
customs and usage with a little variation owing
to geographical divisions. |
Dress:
The traditional Khasi male dress is 'Jymphong'
or a longish sleeveless coat without collar, fastened
by thongs in front. Now, the Khasis have adopted
the western dress. On ceremonial occasions, they
appear in 'Jymphong' and dhoti with
an ornamental waist-band.
The Khasi traditional female dress is rather
elaborate with several pieces of cloth, giving
the body a cylindrical shape. On ceremonial occasions,
they wear a crown of silver or gold on the head.
A spike or peak is fixed to the back of the crown,
corresponding to the feathers worn by the menfolk. |

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Food & Drinks:
The staple food of Khasis is rice. They also
take fish and meat. Like the other tribes in the North-East,
the Khasis also ferment rice-beer, and make spirit out
of rice or millets by distillation. Use of rice-beer
is a must for every ceremonial and religious occasion.
Social Structure:
The Khasis, the Jaintias and the Garos have a
matrilineal society. Descent is traced through the mother,
but the father plays an important role in the material
and mental life of the family. While, writing on the
Khasi and the Jaintia people, David Roy observed, 'a
man is the defender of the woman, but the woman is the
keeper of his trust'. No better description of Meghalayan
matrilineal society could perhaps be possible.
In the Khasi society, the woman looks after home and
hearth, the man finds the means to support the family,
and the maternal uncle settles all social and religious
matters. Earlier in the conservative Jaintia non-Christian
families, however, the father only visits the family
in the night and is not responsible for the maintenance
of the family.
Inheritance:
Khasis follow a matrilineal system of
inheritance. In the Khasi society, it is only the youngest
daughter or 'Ka Khadduh'; who is eligible to
inherit the ancestral property.
If 'Ka Khadduh' dies without any daughter surviving
her, her next elder sister inherits the ancestral property,
and after her, the youngest daughter of that sister.
Failing all daughters and their female issues, the property
goes back to the mother';s sister, mother';s
sister';s daughter and so on.
The Ka Khadduh';s property is actually the ancestral
property and so if she wants to dispose it off, she
must obtain consent and approval of the uncles and brothers.
Among the War-Khasis, however property passes to the
children, male or female, in equal shares but among
the War-Jaintias, only the female children get the inheritance
Marriage:
Marriage within a clan is a taboo. Rings or betel-nut
bags are exchanged between the bride and the bridegroom
to complete the union. In the Christian families, however,
marriage is purely a civil contract.
Religion:
The Khasis are now mostly Christians. But before
that, they believed in a Supreme Being, The Creator
- U Blei Nongthaw and under Him, there were several
deities of water and of mountains and also of other
natural objects.
The Garos
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The vibrant and virile ethnic people
who reside in the Garo Hills are known as the
Garos. The word Garo has been coined
after the name of a small group of the Garos residing
in the central part of the southern hills. Besides
the Garo hills, there are Garo settlements in
the plains of Assam and Bangladesh.
The Garos call themselves Achik-mande.
In the Garo language Achik means Hills
and mande, Man. So, Achik-mande
means the Hills people.
Dress: The Garo women used
to wear a piece of cloth around their waists and
puts on a blouse or vest. The men usually wear,
in addition to cloth, a turban. On all festive
occasions, the Garos, irrespective of sex, wear
head dresses with rows of beads stuck with feathers
of hornbill. Males and females - both wear
bangles and earrings. Educated and well-to-do
Garos in the towns wear western dress. |
Food and Drink:
The Garos have no inhibitions about food. Their
chief meals consist of rice with onions, capsicum and
salt thrice a day. Practically all types of animal foods
are taken. Drinks are almost an everyday affair. The
liquor is not distilled, but prepared by brewing food
grains.
Birth, Marriage and Death: Birth
is a matter of joy not only to the family, but also
to the community. Till death the new-born baby belongs
to the mother';s family, irrespective of sex, even
after marriage. Lineage is always matrilineal like the
Khasis and the Jaintias. Except amongst the Nayars in
Kerala, this system is not found anywhere in the country.
It is unique among the Meghalayans in the North-East.
Marriage within the clan is completely prohibited and
severely punishable. Marriage is however, arranged with
the formal sanction of the parents.
Death of a person is not only a loss to the family,
but is also mourned by the entire community. Elaborate
rituals are held. Before embracing Christianity, they
used to cremate the dead body, in the presence of all
relations of the deceased. Now-a-days, according to
Christian practice, the body is buried.
Bachelors'; Dormitories:
Till now, the institution of Bachelors';
Dormitories which is gradually disappearing amongst
the tribes of North Eastern Region, are found in the
Garo villages. In such dormitories young people stay
and live together till they are married. They receive
various training in the dormitories like protection
of crops, construction of roads, organising festivals,
sports and ceremonies.
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